Sigh. You raise them, find them a wife, a good, lustful, indulgent wife, and then they go and die on you. Then, of course, their infant son would just go and die too so where do you turn for an heir? You think I want the King of France inheriting all the territory I've gone to war for? No sir, I will just have to instate harsher punishments for dying in my dukedom.